preschool woes

Unfortunately, we're not in love with Luke's preschool. Mama would really like it to be more child-directed, and more in line with this child development philosophy. I'm probably a preschool teacher's nightmare: someone who knows a little bit, has definite opinions, and is a protective Mama bear, to boot. I've been struggling to figure out what is bugging me, and I think I've narrowed it down to philosophy. Here's an example: There are some aggressive kids in Luke's class, and I think the teacher-led activities mean that, at transition times when teachers are busy putting away or getting out materials, these pint-size whirlwinds have the "opportunity" for bad behavior. (Think "Lord of the Flies" after naptime.) Not that all child-directed programs are full of contented, happily engaged children, just that aggressive behavior and transition times can be better managed in a program that offers free access to play materials, and a "curriculum" that responds to and builds on childrens' interests. And, yeah, I'd really like someone to stop that one kid from spitting, because it's just not a cool habit for Luke to bring home. Anyhow ....

We're looking into other programs, which is not uncomplicated, and we are still going to apply to our no. 1 choice: Glenridge. We toured Glenridge again this past Monday, and here are pics from our horse ride "through" the Canyon. This 2nd tour confirmed our opinion: it's an unparalleled setting, with a warm and wonderfully child-centered curriculum, and Luke would thrive here.


Wish us luck. Our application is due April 1, and we hope to hear back shortly thereafter.

In Crayon Box news (Luke's current preschool): Fortunately, our little man is slowly adjusting. Just last Friday, for the first time, he didn't cry when Dada dropped him off. He knows and likes his teachers, he has a best friend at school, and he does art projects and ballet. But, he does not not not like staying past 3:30 p.m. in the afternoon, and we've been fortunate that Dada has been able to rearrange his schedule so that he can pick up the little guy at 3:30 p.m. All in all, Luke spends 6 1/2 hours at school each day, for two days a week. Even though it's not our preferred program, it's OK.